20. June 2009


Behaviour Patterns of Online Dating Scammers

Are you being conned by an internet dating scammer? Read the behaviour patterns of online dating scammers to find out. Almost every successful online dating scam follows a set pattern of behaviour. Once scammers find something that works they will use it until people get wise to the scam and then move on to something [...]

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13. June 2009


Porn in a Relationship … what’s going on?

When does porn in a relationship stop being a way for a couple to get new ideas and start damaging the relationship? What’s going on when your partner wants to bring pornography into your relationship? We now live in a very sexually open society where virtually nothing is private or taboo. Pornography has been around [...]

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11. June 2009


Basic Travel Allowance | BTA Dating Scam

Second only to flight money, the Basic Travel Allowance (BTA) is the scammers highest paying income. Also known as the Personal Travel Allowance, Travellers Allowance Fee, Travellers Assistance Fund, Travellers Assurance Fund and numerous other forms of “I have to have wodges of your cash or they won’t let me fly”. Let’s get this over [...]

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6. June 2009


3 Reasons Why Women Cheat | Understanding Adultery

As I said in the last article stating the top 3 reasons why men cheat, it is not only men that cheat, more and more women are also committing adultery. This is largely driven by opportunity. As women have gained closer equality with men their work and social lives have opened new doors and presented [...]

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31. May 2009


3 Reasons Why Men Cheat | Understanding Adultery

Adultery is as old as time, for as long as there have been humans roaming the earth people have been cheating on their partners but we need to understand that it is often a symptom, not a cause. Firstly let’s just admit that women as well as men cheat, however women tend to commit adultery [...]

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20. May 2009


Dating Scams – Online Dating Profile Photo’s

Many online daters feel they are too smart to get caught out by a dating scammer, they believe they can easily spot a bogus dating profile or photo. It’s time to think again. We have answered the question “what is an online dating scammer” and looked at the No 1 internet dating scam, the 419 [...]

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17. May 2009


5 Tips to Spot a Nigerian Dating Scammer

Are you chatting to a genuine online dater or a Nigerian scammer? Become an online dating investigator and use these 5 Tips to spot a Nigerian dating scammer. Before you start playing hot and frisky or declaring love to someone from an online dating site do a little research to find out if they are [...]

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15. May 2009


Internet Dating Scam No 1 – The 419 Scam

The 419 Scam is the No1 online dating scam, also called a Nigerian scam, but it comes in many forms and not only from Nigeria. We have all heard about the “please cash my money order or cheque for x millions and you get 10%” letters and emails, well that is a 419 scam. You [...]

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13. May 2009


Online Dating and Rudeness

One of the regular complaints about online dating is the rudeness that abounds. I am often asked how to deal with rudeness on online dating sites and after the first date. There are three distinct catagories of dating rudeness I can think of and while they vary in degree they are all unnecessary and are [...]

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