Tag Archive | "Dating Don’ts"

The Best Relationship Tip | Dating Advice

Tuesday, November 3, 2009


If you could give just one relationship tip to couples what would it be? This is a question I was asked recently and finding just one gem of dating advice which covers every couple, whether newly dating or in a long term relationship, wasn’t easy. I dismissed the dating advice on how to meet someone [...]

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Online Dating and Rudeness

Wednesday, May 13, 2009


One of the regular complaints about online dating is the rudeness that abounds. I am often asked how to deal with rudeness on online dating sites and after the first date. There are three distinct catagories of dating rudeness I can think of and while they vary in degree they are all unnecessary and are [...]

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Passive or Active Online Dating

Wednesday, March 11, 2009


There are two types of online daters, passive and active. Passive daters make up over 80% of the online dating world and are far less likely to succeed. Like a fitness programme, it won’t work by sitting on your sofa and reading books about getting fit or meeting that someone special. In order to be [...]

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Single Women Seeking Married Men

Thursday, July 31, 2008


What drives a good looking, confident single woman to only seek married men for a “relationship”? Is that what they set out to find or did she just discover that she can get what she wants or feels she needs from a casual relationship with a married man having an affair? Some single men have [...]

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4 Reasons Not to Put Your Children’s Photo on a Dating Profile?

Thursday, June 19, 2008


I am not a parent so would not tell anyone how to be a parent or protect their child from internet dangers. However the dangers, however remote, are very real and in bringing this issue to your attention I hope you will consider how you display your child or childrens photos while online dating. As [...]

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You can justify cheating?

Monday, May 26, 2008


Back in Jan 2007 Curt Smith wrote an article called Can cheating be healthy for a relationship? and he was not wrong when he opened with the sentence “Let me guess; you did a double take when you read the title of this article, right?” The article has attracted 284 comments, with the latest being [...]

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6 Things Not to Discuss or Talk About on a First Date

Friday, May 9, 2008


There are certain topics you should not discuss on a first date, no matter what. We all know when on a first date not to discuss our bowel movements but for some reason I keep meeting people who discuss topics which put me off totally. A first date can find your mouth working before your [...]

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5 Steps to Avoid Giving in to First Date Sex

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

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Why should you avoid first date sex? A first date can be electrifying, particularly if you met on an online dating site and have been talking for a while. That is the joy of a new romance but if you have first date sex then the chase is over before it began. Most people will [...]

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Dating tactics to avoid – part 1 Desperation

Wednesday, April 16, 2008


Desperation in the dating game is not an attractive quality, you are not saying to someone “you are special” but are in fact saying “you’ll do”. I have spent my whole life going at everything like a bull in a china shop and then of course I get bored and go to do something different. [...]

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